In the journey of life, we often find ourselves trying to “save” our lives. Whether it’s navigating relationships, careers, or personal challenges, we might feel burdened by the notion that we need to rescue ourselves from difficult situations. Have you ever wished you could just save yourself from something hard? I’ve been there. I wanted to run from difficult things and I’ve learned that instead of focusing on the situation at hand, I need to look at the bigger picture. 

What if we shifted our perspective? What if, instead of saving, we focused on building? Building a life that’s authentically ours, full of empowerment and strength. In this blog, we’ll explore the idea of reframing our mindset and embracing the power of building, not saving our lives.

As women, we are natural caretakers, and it’s a beautiful trait. However, this nurturing instinct can sometimes lead us to put others’ needs before our own, leaving us feeling like we must save ourselves from this self-neglect. It could be at home or in the workplace, so instead of playing the role of the rescuer, let’s embrace our inner architect. Like master builders, we can design and construct a life that aligns with our values and passions. By taking control of our destinies, we become the architects of our dreams, building a future that empowers and fulfills us.

Here are 3 daily affirmations you can use to reframe your mindset and start building a life you love!

1. I am the architect of my destiny, building a life that aligns with my true self and passions.

2. I am the master of my thoughts and emotions, choosing to focus on the positive, empowering aspects of every situation, and creating a life of optimism and resilience.

3. I am deserving of all the joy, success, and abundance life has to offer. By building a life of purpose and passion, I am attracting limitless possibilities.

Which one speaks to you the most? If you love the inspiration coming from this, I ask you to share today’s blog with a friend and invite them to the ‘Design Your Life’ Facebook Group! I’ve learned when you share joy, it will always come back to you! 

It’s time to embrace your power and build the life of your dreams!


Hugs and Love,

Dr. B

xoxo